Kathleen's Words
The Principle of 90/10 In Your Intimate Relationship
“Out beyond ideas of wrong doing and right doing, there is a field. I'll meet you there.” Rumi The principle of 90/10 is applied to many things, for instance, the notion that is 10 percent of your activities will account for 90 percent of your results. When...
What Do You Stand For?
What do you really want in your relationship? With your children? Your work? What’s so important to you that you are willing to experience the discomfort of change. If you want intimacy, take a stand for it. If you want open and joyful relationships with your children, take a stand for that. If you want meaningful work, stick with it until you find it.
When You Don’t Know What To Say
“The great gift of human beings is that we have the power of empathy.” Meryl Streep If you are like most people, and interact with several if not hundreds of other human beings every day, you will experience moments when you don’t know what to say. I believe that...
Less Drama, More Energy
“Most of the successful people I’ve known are the ones who do more listening than talking.” Bernard M. Baruch Listen to the blog post here: In this time of gender turmoil and waves of chaos influencing all relationships, it takes a stronger vow and more...
I Really See You
Self-esteem? Why is it so important? Self-esteem statistics are hard to come by, but there are figures that say that two-thirds of Amercians have low self-esteem, and it is indeed a problem, or rather could be the root of other problems that are sky-rocketing. I...
Offerings To Your Spirit
“Stepping out of the busyness, stopping our endless pursuit of getting somewhere else, is perhaps the most beautiful offering we can make to our spirit.” Tara Brach Human beings need a slowed down pace to avoid “soul lag,” a condition in which the spirit of a person...
Sovereignty In Love
“Love comes when manipulation stops; when you think more about the other person than about his or her reactions to you. When you dare to reveal yourself fully. When you dare to be vulnerable.” Joyce Brothers A great enemy of love arises when two people vie for...
Trust Your Gut
“If we are to learn to improve the quality of the decisions we make, we need to accept the mysterious nature of our snap judgments.” - Malcolm Gladwell It’s hard to know what to trust these days, whether it’s the news or the latest way to eat so that a virus or...
THE ONLY WORK WE HAVE TO DO
“Go back and stand under that one red flower and walk straight ahead for that last hard mile. Go up and knock on the old weathered door. Climb up to the cave. Crawl through the window of a dream. Sift the desert and see what you find. It is the only work we...