Stop, Drop, & Smile

I love koan-like statements like this one by the mystic poet and saint Kabir, because they help me to keep questioning the outrageous ideas that my analytical mind comes up with to “solve” the questions of my heart and soul. Like the woman in this hilarious video called “It’s Not About The Nail”, my mind is sometimes like a guy trying to solve a problem that cannot be solved.

Courage Needed!!!

  “Courage is what it takes to stand up and speak; courage is also what it takes to sit down and listen.” Winston Churchill Right now, we see leaders on both sides lacking courage, not listening deeply to the hearts of the people they lead.  In it’s place is the...

Your Relationship Is Your Child

Your Relationship Is Your Child: I tell the couples I work with that their relationship is really their child, and that the well-being of that child depends on how they both take care of it. When things aren’t positive between them, I have them see their relationship as a fussy child who needs to be tended to. Possibly more attention, maybe better boundaries and more structure, less work, and more fun.

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