BOUNDARIES AND LIMITLESSNESS
Boundaries are rules of conduct determining how you act and react in relation to others.
Boundaries are rules of conduct determining how you act and react in relation to others.
Essentially, the Law of Attraction can be understood by the concept that “like attracts like,” and that what we place our focus on has a huge impact on what is actually happening in our lives. If we focus on being afraid of things out there, we activate fear inside and that is our point of attraction, calling fearful things to us. If we focus on expecting a positive outcome, we can activate the feeling of optimism as a point of attraction inside. If we focus on our desire to connect, we activate openness inside as our point of attraction, and invite the same in others. We impact the outcome each time.
Though I primarily work with adults, I often see the children of clients I work with, and I must admit to learning something new every time one of these amazing “new kids” graces me with their presence.
Most of my inspiration to write this blog comes from working directly with clients, and there are themes that show up in my practice on a regular basis. One of them has to do with the most powerful weapon any human possesses—the power to hurt another human being with words.
Your Relationship Is Your Child: I tell the couples I work with that their relationship is really their child, and that the well-being of that child depends on how they both take care of it. When things aren’t positive between them, I have them see their relationship as a fussy child who needs to be tended to. Possibly more attention, maybe better boundaries and more structure, less work, and more fun.